One thing I love about this job is its flexibility. When I started as a massage therapist, I was in my early 20s. I didn’t mind juggling 2–3 clinics at the time. I was young, full of energy, and eager to work.
Then I got pregnant. That’s when it hit me—being self-employed and going on maternity leave meant no income. I spoke to my peers and asked how they managed financially while raising children. Most of them went back to work after three months—of course, depending on their financial situation and childcare support.
I did the same, but I waited four months. I worked part-time and on weekends when my boyfriend (now husband) was off from his full-time job. Once my child started daycare at 18 months, I slowly increased my hours.
Here are a few reasons why I went back early:
1. I needed a break from childcare.
Whether we admit it or not, every new mom craves a break—from the crying, the constant carrying and feeding, and the never-ending housework. Society needs to normalize this reality and stop making women feel guilty for needing time away from their children.
2. I didn’t want to lose my clientele.
I was fortunate to work at an established clinic, but I still wanted to ensure I didn’t lose the clients who came specifically to see me. When you’ve worked hard to build your clientele, it’s hard to let that go.
3. The mental and physical benefits of working
I’ve worked since I was 15 and never took a real break. After four months at home, the lack of work took a toll on me mentally and physically. I loved caring for my baby, but returning to work gave me a renewed sense of purpose. I could raise my child and still contribute financially. The flexibility of massage therapy allowed me to do both. Balancing work and motherhood wasn’t easy, but it made me feel proud and fulfilled.
Challenges of Being a Mom and a Massage Therapist:
Every new mom faces a steep learning curve:
How do I change a diaper?
How do I manage a load of laundry while breastfeeding?
Have I even showered today?
Looking back, it’s funny—but at the time, it was overwhelming.
When I returned to work, I was constantly on the go. I lacked sleep and felt exhausted. As massage therapists, we need to be mentally and physically prepared for each treatment. When you’re sleep-deprived and worn out, it’s hard to give your best. Working while tired drains your energy even more.
The guilt was real. Like many working moms, I constantly felt guilty for not being fully present with my child.
Financial stress was another major challenge. Being self-employed means no work, no income. If you’re planning to take time off, make sure to save enough in advance to avoid unnecessary financial strain.
The Bright Side
One of the best things about being a massage therapist is the flexibility it offers. I was able to coordinate my work schedule with my husband’s, allowing us to care for our child without outside help at first.
This career is a great option for parents who want part-time work while raising children.
Being a new parent and a massage therapist isn’t always easy. Do what works for you and your family. Take a break and ask for help if you need one. And remember, you are doing an amazing job!
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